During life, we dream about many things and a lot of them we just forget and don’t go for them. Of course, some of our dreams are based on other people’s dreams so watching others we think we want the same. We get inspired with the success others achieved and think we can do the same. And we can, but…
Define Your Real Goal
Sometimes it’s really hard to differ where is what we really want and what we think we want. Living in a society we get a lot of fears. We are afraid of failure or be not enough good in something or worse than others… And the most important – we need to learn that we need to wait… So to define our real goals, we need to try different things, look for what we like to do and what inspires us. What we do better than others or feel what we should do… Only listening to your heart, your body, you can define your path and your skills. And we should develop those skills which we need to be better in what we like. And always remember – “No expectations – no disappointments”.
Distractions Based On Fears
Very often, especially when we are young, our parents, teachers make us believe that they know better where people can achieve more success in life. Especially about the profession. Following your parents’ dreams which they didn’t achieve being young, can bring you enough money and stability as they wanted if you started to train needed skills from young ages but… Eventually, you may find out, feel, that you’re not doing what you want and what you supposed to do… And you wasted your time, you got disappointed, lost and unhappy. And when you will find that out, ages are gone and it’s harder to find out what is your destiny and what would make you happy as you will be full of fears to lose the stability. Especially if you will have a family to feed already.
Follow Your Heart
It’s not obviously how it will happen, but there is such a chance. That’s why it’s very important not to follow the desire to be better others and more successful, more rich, etc than others. But find something that will make you happy. You don’t know how unhappy and lonely could be rich and famous people. So don’t envy others. Be yourself. Even if you don’t know now how your passion can bring you money or success, or more friends… But just know that you will find that out eventually. Just don’t rush things. Everything will happen at the right time. Learn to wait.
Success doesn’t Happen Tomorrow
And very often, even if we found that business or passion, or hobby which makes us happy and we have a dream and know what we want to achieve…. We can quit in the middle of the road again because of fears or looking at others… You can think that someone achieved more than you did, someone is more talented etc… But it’s not true. The road to success isn’t easy. It doesn’t mean you will learn a new language in 1 week, for example. It requires a lot of hard work, patience and faith in yourself. Just don’t stop. At the moment you decided to quit, just think that maybe this, the hardest moment, just one step away from achieving your dream. So make a deep breath and continue! You can do it!
