We all get born unique. We have own features, own vision, unique character. But are you falling in love with yourself? Since we start socializing, we start to inherit some features from others. First, it goes from our family. we want to be like our parents, siblings who teach us how to live and what to do. Then we meet other people, friends, teachers and learn from them, want to be like others to make people like us.
The versatility of the World
Besides, since the world is so versatile, people invent so many things and compete with each other. It means, that everyone wants to be the best in sports, school, job etc. And people invented standards of perception and try to achieve them during life. It is related to the appearance as well. There are many beauty contests where people choose the most beautiful people. But what does it mean in reality?
Raised fears
In reality, it creates a lot of insecurities, fears, and anxieties in people. Kids start to think that they are not beautiful, others don’t like them and they lose their confidence. Sometimes it can lead to the worst consequences like suicides. It becomes the reason people become angry, envy, insincere. It also makes people unhappy and stops people from achieving their dreams. Does it sound familiar? So what can we do? How can you be falling in love with yourself when you have so many fears?
Uniqueness is the Key to Happiness
It’s very important so parents would teach their kids from a very early age that everyone is unique and this uniqueness makes people beautiful. The most beautiful people – the ones, who have a pure and kind soul. You might ask – but what about those beautiful people who have perfect skin, face, body? Do you think they all are the same happy as they show? Others might define them as beautiful today but do you think that only an opinion of others makes them beautiful and happy?
Inner Beauty
Beauty is the reflection of your inner state, the way you perceive yourself, the way you feel. If you’re struggling with thinking that you have not beautiful nose or legs or whatever you think isn’t perfect, just think that God made you different for a reason. It’s not a burden, it’s a gift. It’s a feature that makes you unique. Only when you learn to look at yourself and see the most beautiful person, accept yourself the way you are, you will find peace within yourself.
Why loving yourself is important?
Happiness lays in you. Fall in love with yourself and you will see an incredible world around you. It will help you to love others as well and see the beauty in every single person, notice uniqueness in everyone. It will make you confident and will help you to make others confident as well. Loving yourself open so many doors. It will show you that in reality you can achieve all you want and there are no doors you can’t open. You will step into your unique path and it will show your happiness.
